Yes. I work with sexuality and sexual functioning concerns involving desire, arousal, erections, ejaculation, orgasm, pain, sexual anxiety, confidence, communication, or feeling disconnected from your body or sexuality.

I won’t assume that more desire, more sex, penetration, orgasm, or a particular kind of body response should be the goal. We’ll begin with your experience: what feels distressing, what feels missing, what you want more or less of, and what—if anything—you want to change.

Your relationship with your body matters, too. Pain and changes in desire, arousal, orgasm, or erections deserve thoughtful medical attention alongside therapy. I won’t reduce what is happening to something that is “all in your head.” We can look at the whole picture: what is happening physically, what your nervous system has learned, what happens between you and other people, and the meanings or shame that may have gathered around sex.

The goal is not to make your sexuality look more normal. It is to help you understand what is happening and move toward more choice, connection, and ease—on your terms.

Yes. I work with Autistic people, people with ADHD, and other neurodivergent people.

You won’t need to convince me that your needs are real, perform “good therapy,” or make yourself easier for me to understand. Accessibility needs are not inconveniences. If you need more time, more clarity, more movement, less eye contact, or a different way into a question, we can work with that. You are not doing therapy wrong.

I’m not interested in helping you become better at masking or easier for other people to manage. I’m interested in helping you understand yourself, spend less energy fighting your own brain and nervous system, and build a life that works better for you.

Therapy should make more room for you—not ask you to take up less.

I work with adults exploring sexuality, gender, embodiment, relationships, shame, desire, and change. My practice is especially welcoming to queer, trans, neurodivergent, questioning, kinky, polyamorous, and asexual people, though you do not need to belong to any particular community or use any particular label to work with me.

You may know exactly what you want to explore. You may only know that something feels off, that you’re tired of fighting yourself, or that the life you’re living no longer fits. You don’t need a polished explanation, years of previous therapy, or a particular talent for talking about feelings. Part of the work is finding the language together.

Any of those is enough to begin.

I offer individual therapy and do not currently work with couples.

Many therapists offer a brief introductory call. I offer a free 50-minute online consultation because choosing a therapist is an important decision, and I don’t think you should have to make it after a rushed introduction.

We’ll have time to talk about what you’re looking for, what kind of support I offer, and any questions or concerns you have. You can get a real sense of how I work and how it feels to talk together, without needing to share anything you’re not ready to share or make a decision on the spot.

The point is to give your concerns, your questions—and you—room to breathe.

There is no required commitment and no predetermined number of sessions. Some people come for a handful of sessions focused on a specific concern. Others stay longer as they work through more complex or longstanding patterns. We will regularly check in about how therapy is feeling, what is changing, and whether our work together continues to feel useful.

I don’t work with children or teens. Working with young people is its own specialty, and they deserve a therapist who really knows that work.

Age is not the only consideration around fit, though. I work with people who have enough independence in their lives to make meaningful choices for themselves and pursue the changes they want. That doesn’t mean having everything figured out or are entirely independent—very few of us are. It means that coming to therapy is your choice, and the life you’re working toward is yours to shape.

“I used to think I was indecisive. But now I'm not so sure.”

I know. It's a terrible joke.

Why put a joke in the FAQ? Because therapy can involve some difficult exploration, but the way I work also makes room for more than staring into the darkness. Noticing your strengths, celebrating your wins, finding moments of pleasure and, yes, laughing at terrible jokes and the ridiculousness of life are part of healing, too.